Goodreads Doesn't Have It, Data Migration: The Happy Hooker
Some of this is just gross. She basically gets trained on a beach, says she doesn't like it and wants to vomit, and then still goes on to say how "happy" she is. She then speaks about getting beaten up, or clients wanting disgusting things, clearly she is not happy but scared crap less half the time, but then she circles around and says she's happy again. The whole thing strikes me as someone's heart was broken, she stopped valuing herself, the guy probably broke her heart on purpose in this way and nudged her in an immigration-dependent prostitution situation. It just seems like profound self-gaslighting.
Clearly this Carl guy gets off on rendering women vulnerable with visas, and then gently tries to nudge them the prostitution direction. Then she spends the rest of her life broken from low self-worth, claiming she likes it while constantly she is describing scenes where she doesn't like it at all. Where her money is considered "easy come, easy go" and she isn't considered a professional.
For cases like this, I would want legalization, but the fact stands that once the human trafficking rot infests the area, it's nothing but payouts, etc., and then all the men start viewing all the women as prostitutes and they don't even basically get how to treat them as fellow professionals when they're not sex workers in a professional setting due to their sheer sex addiction.
I would want legalization for women like Xaviera but the fact stands the men don't have the intelligence for it and with legalization would continue profound stupidity of being unable to stop viewing all women are prostitutes or whores due to enabling the John culture, and so women who wanted nothing to do with it would deal with these disgusting pieces of shit trying engineer them into an activity they wanted nothing to do with due to the enabled sex addiction of these men.
Some of these things are just gross, like the John that always needs two girls on the scene, eats them out, prefers Lolita types and likes "around the world". It's just demented.
And the capitulation is terrible too. "Wouldn't you rather he buy a quickie than have a mistress?" No, I don't want someone who does either. Committing genes aren't cheap and don't come easily. Being so weak and enabling it is weakness; it is sincerely biased to suggest people can't control themselves. If some certain type of person likes to live life cheaply and betray their commitments, they can have it at that kind of life. But other people have higher standards for their relationships and don't want anything to do with someone who can't be relied on to be honest and who constantly has an excuse why they weren't committed. Some men will never have an excuse for not being committed, and don't use their bodies as an excuse.
She seems to be gaslighting herself the whole book.
What I think is funny is how it's a liberal/blue clientele she's describing, that "respects prostitutes" but then refuses to legalize. She then cites the payoff structure is actually a huge source of profit but is rotting areas with a human trafficking problem from the inside out. Their respect of prostitutes is fake if they don't legalize it; and they reason they don't legalize it looks like greed that they make more money on payouts. The literal cops have a calculus where they make more money not doing their job and turning their surroundings into a corrupt joke in the eyes of the world, and therefore want to keep it illegal for the extremely hypocritical illegal payoff structure.
In fact the book ends with them setting a price, $10,000, to completely corrupt a court case and basically bought the outcome. That is the picture of corruption . They literally bought the outcome. It doesn't matter what the other side said because the court itself is a prostitute. That's legal fraud. If there's predecision, and the court's decisions itself are a prostitute to who's willing to pay $10,000 or not, they have no reason to not legalize. The court itself is a paid prostitute. They literally paid for the outcome. Disgusting and corrupt beyond words.
If you see an area has a huge prostitution problem, you can be sure the courts themselves are prostitutes that sell their decisions to the highest buyers. If prostitutes aren't legal in such a case, these courts that are prostitutes to paid predecision should be illegal as well on prostituting their services.
The whole things strikes me as someone gaslighting themselves after they were treated like crap but a real sh*tshow, this Carl guy.
The rest is just corruption. You get the strength of person you enable; the irresponsibility is insane. "Men crave variety". Speak to your partner about it. Look into an open relationship if you must. But seriously, it is nothing at all to demand that your partner doesn't betray you with secret other partners and prostitutes. It is perfectly sane and recommended to not be weak in the fact of that and demand a partner that has way more responsibility for their drive and needs. They are perfectly capable of controlling their bodies and saying they aren't is the picture of weak corruption with all the attending irresponsibility.
These kinds of things cause men to see all women as prostitutes. You can be sure someone who thinks like that is neck deep in John culture and can't even work with women without seeing them about sex primarily because of the enabled sex addiction.