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Envious supervisors create a less desirable environment and ultimately drive people out away from them toward other companies with more secure leadership. This used to be Americaâs reputation and presentation to the world, but more and more we see it collapse into all the signs of the very inferior supervision and violent insecurity that many individuals flee their country to get away from to a more secure nation possessed of alleged transformational leadership. Slowly but surely Americaâs transformational power is being overrun and devalued in favor once more of the envious inferior supervisor.
Getting people to the right jobs is critical. Just beating people down and remaining in denial will have a sickening effect across the board when putting them in the correct position is the solution.That shows that these supervisors are not only envious, but actually quite bad with solutions.
Envious supervisors may purposefully wrongfully evaluate the person they are jealous of. This is not appropriate behavior for a supervisor and is considered inferior supervision for that reason.
When a whole group is superior to its supervisor, the whole group falls into misery. Thus, a common complaint of collective misery may be attributable to rigid inferior supervision that refuses to demote itself even for the collective health.
Organizations are encouraged after reviewing the science to actively select against supervisors that are willing and able to sabotage from above due to the massive and profound damage they do.
When support is suddenly rescinded or a support person suddenly stops communicating, inferior supervision and envy should be considered the first suspects. Overqualification usually leads to a sudden drop in support by envious supervisors to sabotage the person they are jealous of.
Therefore, the paper clearly cites the recommendation for envious supervisors is to remove them before they can continue in their damage which positions of power give them power to amplify in ways that can have terrible effects for those who would never chose to be affected by someone like that.
Therefore, the paper clearly cites the recommendation for envious supervisors is to remove them before they can continue in their damage which positions of power give them power to amplify in ways that can have terrible effects for those who would never chose to be affected by someone like that.
Envy manifests in covert acts of violence and sabotage. Someone sees someone, feels envy of a sufficient amount, and then views this as sufficient to start planning violence and sabotage.
Market structure and regulation tended to have deleterious effects on envy, where envy is associated with scarcity and scarcity intersects with instability of all different kinds.
Unlike these corrupt police that took bribes, envy in the drug dealers was not ameliorated by money. Pure vanity turned to envy then turned to hatred and it could reach embarrassing pitches for everyone to witness someone starting a war over something like that.
Having âbeef withâ someone meant they were really envious. It was normal in these socioeconomically dilapidated areas rife with drug dealing for someone to just do basically well for themselves and to cause someone to notice and feel compulsive envy, at which point it was normal for them to âstart beefâ just for being jealous.
The slain dealers of Nigeria were often described as âbeing on a high horseâ and âpompousâ by other dealers and they set them up out of sheer envy. This was considered normal motive in Nigeria for such a drastic, discrediting action.
Where these mob tactics are very prevalent, it is common for mob bosses to purposefully dress in an underdone way as to not invite the envy of other dealers. People existing successfully was seen as showing off and they were inclined to ambush or even attempt murder just because someone was seen to be existing with some degree of success. They admit that the motive was sheer envy. No criteria was established for determining whether or not the person was showing off or just doing their job.
Gifts were offered that were stolen or they would deliberately avoid contracts so they could then set them up as stolen. This was common envious behavior in Nigeria.
Dealers will also try to rob each other or engage in other injustices to try to trigger violent behavior and get the person arrested.
Individuals end up in a crabs in a barrel situation where no amount of even appearing basically successful is safe because it will inspire the violent envy as the sole reason for keeping the other person down. Therefore, sometimes these communities do the dirty work of the people that want to see them stay down the most. They are their own worst enemies in this case.
In drug-dealing culture, even if one is not involved with it, being around it is enough. If it is sufficiently prevalent in the local area and the person is not involved with it incredulousness, anger, questioning, and saying the person is nothing simply for not being involved in buying and selling drugs is seen.
Envy was seen as a perfectly normal and acceptable motive in the drug dealing community in Nigeria. In other parts of the world it is a cause for embarrassment and not viewed as a valid motive at all.
When repercussions are long-standing, ongoing and next to nothing seems to resolve them, the diagnosis is usually profoundly entrenched envy for the targeted person.
Theft of funds was often a product of entrenched envy. Street drug dealers were set up by friends and sexual partners to be robbed of drugs, cash, and other valuables. Often this betrayal was based in entrenched envy by the alleged friends that were quite obviously not really their friends for this reason.
In drug dealing communities, a catch-22 exists. Respect and status is a product of financial wealth, but if you show it off too much, you are liable to be subjected to violence out of sheer envy and in these deeply unstable communities that is a normal motive, not one to be embarrassed by and never enact as it is in other communities.
Violent retaliation for envy was viewed as bad for business so sometimes they would turn to going to the cops and the courts when the loss was too high.
Compulsive envious expression that didnât seem to be able to get itself under control suggested oncoming violent retaliation. But when the individual could see that being seen to be in violent retaliation would immediately destroy their business, they used more skillful means. This is similar to American mob behavior.
Inferior supervision can take out its whole field with it doing insidious damage so profound even when intervention is successful and the problem inferiorist is removed, years and years of cleaning out their insidious damaging influence will be in order.
Therapists with inadequate supervisors forced upon them may be the collateral damage of the inadequate supervisorâs incompetence. This is why intervention is critical to remove potentially permanent damage to the field and permanent tarnishing of their field. The same can be seen in law, medical, science, etc.
In the face of mediocre or incompetent supervisors, they will drive people out of every field they try to force themselves onto to feel power and control. The damage they do is profound.
Supervisors do not have full reign. Even supervisors have guidelines that they need to study.
Any supervisor that does not understand supervision is interactional, that perception influences practice even if they think they are insinuating that pure non-interventionism exists, should be precluded on the basis of incompetence. Even watching is watched to the point all things have influence, no matter how minutely.
It is not ok to ask for supervisory intervention and then act like that was not anything other than what it was. That failure to even basically recognize, celebrate and compensate is the problem and must be terminated due to a deeply unsustainable (compensatorily deeply parasitic) model.
The damage autistics in narcissistic denial of therapeutic supervision can do being cognitively inflexible, having no theory of mind, and not being able to differentiate between self and other is too large to just accommodate and they must be precluded on the basis of their disability. There is plenty of other work for this neurotype that is not in narcissistic denial of its limitations.
Autism can be precluded from the therapeutic and the supervisory position because they are not able to meet the initial requirements. Accommodations are for issues beyond the basic requirements in the same way someone with PTSD is precluded from the military not accommodated while in it due to the militaryâs expectedly aggressive/antisocial environment triggering their trauma response.
Being a supervisor is not just being a virtuoso. In the same way a coder may be able to code a vulnerable positionâs skillset, such as trying to code anything a woman does from sheer male inferiority issues, this programmer is not a supervisor if they cannot follow their own coding process and code their own coding. They are an inferiorist virtuoso at best, on a constant mission to prove non-inferiority without any basic supervisory mechanisms even basically competent given their basic inability to explain and break down their own work. This is why many AI features on automated coding schools are completely useless and broken, showing they have no right to be doing this to other positions when their own position is not properly supervised (they canât code themselves and donât understand the nuanced features of doing so).
Supervision takes the ability to carefully and thoroughly acquire knowledge and experience to draw on, be an adept communicator of this knowledge, and be skillful with mutual intelligibility as a translational science. This takes extensive theory of mind to detect different types of comprehension mechanisms/interpretations in different types of enculturated/embedded bodies and minds.
If someone in a supervisory position finds themselves miserable due to not getting a lot of good feedback, they should consider the competent approach which is, as a role model, knowing when to also role model stepping down and replacing with better work as long as that better work has been carefully examined for greater competence and they were not just bullied into it. Of course, a comorbid narcissism diagnosis would preclude them from being able to give away the designation of greater competence which means this personality disorder must be precluded from supervision on that basis of being unable to recognize that whenever it happens due to narcissism.
In the book Who Moved My Cheese, the focus is on change. Such literature is encouraged when change-resistance is doing profound damage. The damage that can be done by not incorporating healthy and flexible concepts about change to therapists and supervisors can be profound. In fact, whenever possible, someone struggling that hard with change resistance should be precluded from a position that requires Theory of Mind like therapy on the basis of disability.
Understanding different types of organizational structures, including how narcissism pathologically affects these organizational structures and distorts and skews them, is critical to understand the maps of wider nexuses of influence. This is a lot to ask of anyone which shows why supervision is not for everyone. It is very computationally expensive and often a painful position many would opt to avoid for being so. When asked to do real supervisory work on this basis, many collapse. It also requires competent compensation due to this computational expensiveness. It cannot run on situations so atrophied they are in unsustainable models. The best that can be done is such a situation is spot checking tech support for the compensation brokenness. If the model is any good it will shut down immediately any attempts to activate it when the model is compensatorily unsustainable and only offer spot-check tech support that the model can afford on that feature.
Coders who claim that victims of their inferiority complex will need to adapt to the changing market who canât code themselves are in deep hypocrisy. A supervised coder who can design AI to debug any code in the same way they know exactly how they debug their own code will knock them out of the park almost immediately as compared to someone who doesnât know how their self-described virtuoso skills happen. It is the same with supervisors. Demand cannot be made to inferiorize someone to feel less inferior when they are processing their own inferiority on a vulnerable person. Itâs so opportunistic it could almost be pedophilic in the same way pieces on pedophiles will say that a lot of the time itâs âwhatâs availableâ, aka, itâs whatâs easiest to them even where this is clearly inappropriate.
Supervision also requires competence with development and phases as a similar competency to competency with change.
Competence and confidence result in non-toxic behavior. Often incompetence and lack of confidence are behind toxic behavior such as feeling that these supervisors do not have systems-oriented training.
Narcissism should also be precluded from therapy and supervision due to the battle for structure being unable to resolve, where a narcissistic individual will not stop until the structure is exactly like theirs when in fact a mutual balancing might be in order. In either position, the narcissist will think their structure is the superior one, sometimes well against the facts, or asserting what they think is superior unable to defend it on mere assertion alone. This precludes getting any work done and does real damage.
Only when a crisis is over should a supervisor who did poor work since the start try to suggest starting a new leaf. If the crisis still has not been resolved by the supervisor they are clearly not supervisor material and thereâs no new leaf to turn.
Again, supervisors do not reign supreme just for being supervisors. This whole piece emphasizes that they have guidelines and necessarily so . Supervisors who interrupt or who jump in to become the therapist because they think they will do better work, or even compete with the therapist if their alternative result is too good, are in huge violation of guidelines for supervisors.
Expecting no pushback with everything perfectly mirrored and puppetted suggests a narcissistic supervisor who has no place in therapy which exists precisely because people are difficult and need support. Anybody not ready for that should be precluded for delusional and incompetent expectations of their job.
Feeling ignored or not like the center of attention when in a behind the scenes (necessarily) supervisor role also suggests narcissism. It is not enough to say this is not appropriate in guidelines; if they keep taking interrupting action due to grandiosity issues this personality type needs to be screened for and precluded because they can sabotage the people they advise when it goes too well and doesnât reflect them.
An ill conceived, overly inclusive, and nonintegrative eclectic approach will also be untenable. AKA, having a lot of tools just to say you have them without an overarching vision and competent plan for them is sheer narcissism.
Interrupting due to unmet grandiosity needs, thinking they can do better than the therapist instead of remaining stepped back and fine-tuning viewing the therapist and patient as in a system that is now unto itself, and other toxic features show the disrespect that characterizes the narcissist. Especially if they interrupt and jump in to demonstrate how they think they can do better instead of fine-tuning the therapist to do the better they themselves can do (which is why they are a supervisor; to help recreate their hopefully positive results) this person may be too narcissistic to supervise jumping in and ruining positive results because itâs not enough about them and not itâs how they would do it.
Constantly trying to interfere, change results, or jump in would be a supervisor too narcissistic for their work who is trying to get self-enhancement and grandiosity needs met with the patient. This is especially traumatizing to the patient who may be coming into therapy precisely for being used in these ways. Even worse are unlicensed supervisors self-awarding themselves a supervisory position from sheer fraud and vanity. They obviously need to be immediately removed. Thus narcissists should be precluded from supervision for ruining high-functioning systems that simply fail to meet their narcissistic grandiosity needs due to becoming more and more self-sufficient and highly-functional, as they are supposed to do.
Narcissism should preclude supervisors. Although it is fine to want something positive for personal career development from a supervisory role, âsomething for themselvesâ does not also mean using the patient for self-enhancement or processing their own trauma vicariously and rewarding them when they do something that is more so their own processing and not the patientâs and discarding them if theyâre no longer allowed to do this. This is disgusting and dangerous in a therapist or a supervisor, especially for victims of self-enhancement.
If a grandiose narcissist seeks a supervisory role, as they are wont to do, they will feel it is onerous if what they selected it for (grandiosity needs) is not forthcoming and instead they are actually asked to do their jobs.
Signs of vulnerable narcissism. Instead of using an excess of inferiority valenced verbiage, Iâd prefer if the author just said that AI gives a false sense of comprehension and people forget that it stands for artificial, not actual intelligence. When actual intelligence is needed artificial intelligence is not sufficient. For instance, Google Translate is a good example of useful artificial intelligence but it is for practical reasons only and cannot replace real, skillful generativity and mastery of these languages.
Generative AI is often deeply embedded in inferiority culture. As the content is abused and not compensated, it is also a hotbed for involuntary servitude and labor trafficking, such as charging $15/hr for writing while selling the same book based on that data stripping at millions of book deals in the stripping AI party. That is absolutely labor trafficking. This level of stripping and leaving for broke the original programmers, as this is built on their text, has had deleterious effects and silenced real artists of visual and verbal matters given theyâre already of the exploited class and now doubly exploited often by people riddled with the valence of inferiority.
Narcissistic injury in AI and a misunderstanding of generativity as it interrelates to the artificiality element of AI: With such a motive of inferiority alone, it will destroy human talent and not even have a comparative work even if the generative AI individual fancies themselves having generated a comparative work. In reality, just as mentioned, these papers fall flat, canât have meaningful discussions on the paper because the author doesnât know themselves, and is âplaying the piano (technical expertise)â without âhearing the why or translatable language in the music (comprehensive expertise)â
Grandoise narcissism with vulnerable features: Increased searchability, language translation, and customized algorithms that actually focus on the weakest and actually build in a design that prepares the student successful and without excessive stress for these statistically lowest answers are all highly functional, prosocial potential offerings of AI. However, these are often the last to actually see investment. Social dominance, antisocial, stripping type AI is getting a lot more funding simply for the social dominance features.
Addictive features of relieving narcissistic injury in data extraction: Often this is just for the data and the actual work is not even appreciated, such as the vicious almost mindless mining of data for Bitcoin in China, as if their skies were not polluted enough. The increasing pipelines to Silicon Valley show evidence of the increasing shuttling of other peopleâs data likely without their knowledge or consent for these kind of rewards without any mind to the damage it does to the original creators. Again this creates snowball effect of increasing stakes for more scarce data, without the leadership to intervene on what starts to look like an increasingly entrenched data addiction from these mining sectors.
Narcissistic injury when a country has more high quality universities generating more high quality research. This due to stable, well-funded design. This leads to the high quality of research generated by high stability. Given its generally advanced development, humanity will not survive the loss of the real university as it is described above especially in the era of climate change which will require computationally expensive thinking that next to no places but the most stable such as the university will have the design for.
Self-citation is acceptable when it is peer-reviewed and nobody else has taken up the torch of that needed niche content.This is not the reason for the academic setting, which is ultimately not just to make good insights, but to actually get something done. It is better to self-cite when the creation is rigorous than include something completely irrelevant to seem like meaningful citation is happening as a performance of citation, not a comprehension of it.However, it is not acceptable when it is a replacement for existing content by other people or trying to evade the scrutiny of peer review due to insecurity issues.
Grandiosity, publishing, and the performance of productivity by the university as a potential meaningless grandiosity: Having insufficient publications was seen as a reason to lay off university professors during Covid-19. That began the drive for meaningless publication, which the now linked-in strongly online Chinese data mining infrastructure design was ready to drive up the motive for.That isnât to cheapen the potential Chinese offering but it is also not a reason to trust it, for upon seeing the meaningless Bitcoin mining of peopleâs data based on interest metrics alone without any personal evaluation of whether this is where the market should ultimately go, it is reason for skepticism and wariness.
Intellectual masturbation occurs when the semblance of having done something precludes the quality of what has been done.
Increasingly because academia rewards these publish or perish, intellectual masturbation types, a new complaint of problematic supervision is causing people to exit the very fields that critically need them most. Just this sentiment is stated in this opinion piece.
Narcissistic self-enhancement in schools: Star students are often used by their schools and then abused. This is a disturbing trend that should have never happened and needs to stop wherever the failure has led to its beginning. For instance, the authorâs colleague had their formative material, their MA thesis, changed to something they didnât want to change it to so that the school could use the student to achieve accreditation. That shows all the signs of the school using the student for self-enhancement without giving back.
The author cites a disturbing trend towards narcissism in academic supervision where they not only feel compelled to do what is required to be published even though it doesnât best fit what they want best out of their comprehension, but they also feel they must change their interests and focus to fit where they want the scholarship. It is as though they already know they canât trust the university to see and also value their own specific interests that are exactly what the university needs; new thinking with a bright future. It is like they already know it has failed before applying. This is tragic to say the least.
Undue cerebral narcissism making incorrect calls at the entry level doing massive damage to the information getting further to where it is really needed: This is a catch-22 for the entry level that is often seen; individuals trying to gain entry may face barriers at the entry level that if they had access to the higher up levels that information would have been imparted in time and not devalued due to being basically not understood. In fact, massive undoable abuse can happen at the entry level if entry barriers are too rigid and donât even have the basic capacity to even replicate them enough to shuttle them up in a sufficient form.
Learning-type egocentricity: Though this author shows verbal neurotypicality, saying that lack of verbal translation skill is lack of overall comprehension when somatic and nonverbal comprehension and translation may be happening, such as forming and reforming different networks in more intelligible and applicable ways, it is otherwise true that lack of responsiveness is artificial comprehension.
Ironically, it was around the time China lost the products of its generativity, its cultural art, that it also experienced its famines again showing how generativity is linked to real comprehension.That is why as more artists are driven from art in the fear it will stripped and replicated without pay, we lose more and more of the linking embodied comprehension of actually having, embodied, completed the work oneself that backs up the value of generativity.
Instead of referring to Dunning-Kruger and collapsing into an inferiority speciation, one should view the triumph over the material as ipsative for a certain type of person, and that for this person, this is a period of serious growth. Focusing on their improvement compared to their own past performance may do wonders for the inflammation features of narcissism. However, when they conflate this with objective performance across their peer sets, they are prone to the nuclear shame reaction finding it is not objective high performance but ipsative high performance. Skillfully rewarding ipsative high performance while still making it clear they are scientifically behind the group and still need to keep working hard, even if it is not their fault such as having a deeply repressive government that stunted their comprehensive faculties on purpose as is the case of some Chinese individuals, is a critical feature of skillful teaching for gaps closure.
Addiction and narcissism can both be characterized as developmental disturbances.
For those with addiction problems and personality disorders, NPD was found to be very prevalent.
Cocaine answers and amplifies narcissistic predispositions, suggesting that narcissists are attracted to cocaine and become even more unsustainably self-aggrandized even more so away from what was already an unsustainable, inflated reality when just operating with insidious NPD.
Most people with NPD had an SUD as well. The prevalence of comorbidity was unusually high.
Individuals who have NPD tend not to get help but individuals with narcissistic tendencies trying to turn proneness due to family or surrounding narcissism into dormancy are more likely to get help. Full blown expressed NPD have little to no chance of seeking real help, especially the grandiose type as it stands, because they tend to think theyâre not doing any damage well against the evidence.
Narcissism has grandiose and vulnerable expressions. Determining what expression happens with what SUD is a cause for experimentation, though the invalidation of an SUD as a âfixâ for NPD must be kept in mind as these SUDs amplify, not resolve, the personality disorder.For instance, if someone is grandiose, they may be pulled to cocaine. While on cocaine they may become even more grandiose than they already were. Given its already noxious qualities, this can be now unbearable to be around.
Those with SUD acted just like those with NPD in many different cases. This doesnât mean that SUD and NPD are conflated though necessarily, as people with NPD tend to get an SUD as many drugs tend to echo and amplify pleasurable features of their personality-disordered neural economy, such as cocaine amplifying pleasurable grandiosity and self-image inflation features well beyond the sustainable reality of the matter.
NPD-SUD Comorbid Behavior (1) being ashamed of vulnerability and hiding weakness from other, just as those with an SUD tend to hide how dependent they are on the drug, hiding the SUD.
NPD-SUD Comorbid Behavior (2) Devaluing others when impossibly grandiose expectations donât come to fruition, in the same way a person with an SUD will get mad when their brain has adjusted and the high is not as high anymore.
NPD-SUD Comorbid Behavior (3) A sense of entitlement that grows from not knowing how or why the drug works and being unable to recreate it endogenously without drugs in themselves, but enjoying the benefits so much that they refuse to accept its absence.
This is the same way where people with an SUD will do embarrassingly aggressive acts to secure their drug of choice including plowing through networks, embarrassing superiors, and ruining fragile ecologies just to maintain their high. They show a lack of self-control in not engaging in these embarrassing actions trying to remain high.
The SUD-NPD comorbidity tends to emphasize shame where they will show much more attempts to pass their shame onto others because it is unbearably present in others, to the point it can get embarrassing due to the mismatch.
Their need to perceive, âneed to seeâ, almost always is a âneed to projectâ or a need to transfer where not appropriate and where no consensual, paid therapeutic alliance has been legally or voluntarily initiated.
Sometimes they are seeking them out to âwinâ where they lost in the narcissistic injury. There is a duty to terminate the attempted non-consensual relationship every time because it will lead to even more narcissistic injury, not less.
Individuals with more shame tend to have more addiction. That does not mean healthy shame means healthy addiction. It simply means shame can lead to addiction. Healthy shame does not inherently lead to addiction; there are healthy ways to resolve shame. SUD is never healthy. That is why it is a disorder.
Drug users tend to a) attempt to shift blame onto others to relieve uncontrollable shame for their personal mistakes or b) trying to coach others to take responsibility as if somehow if they succeed in coaching them in this way then it is almost like they are the ones able to take that kind of responsibility.
Those with an SUD tend to get most of their self-esteem from external validation. They show rigorous inability to escape the comparative/social dominance trap and switch it out for a more ipsative logic.
Well beyond histrionics, excessive shame is described as having an embarrassing, nuclear feature to it when the natural exploitativeness of drug use intersects with preexisting personality dispositions.
Vulnerable narcissists tend to feel some good degree of personal distress and are the narcissistic type most likely to seek treatment.If a narcissist is not seeking treatment or disparages it, they are most likely to be grandiose. They donât feel vulnerable. As always, most people with NPD only turn to churches, therapy, or family when they feel vulnerable. A narcissist not turning to these does not feel vulnerable and can be logically deduced to be grandiose.
Part of treating an SUD must also include the ecopsychology of it, including that capitalism requires unsustainable work rates on the body, which must be enhanced with drugs to even remotely produce at such an unsustainable rate. Failing to see this feature will also lead to failure in treatment and relapse when the drug served a real purpose.
New types of narcissistic models continue to be found, including fragile-exhibitionist and aggressive-antisocial types not entirely explained or described by previous vulnerable and grandiose types.
The attempt to project shame desperately and to force responsibility for a mistake onto someone else is an attempt to hide the self. This is found to be highly prevalent in individuals with SUD who are desperate to shift the issue onto someone else to avoid having to quit the drug if the responsibility is pointed squarely at them, the drug user, highlighting the drug use is not undetectable and without massive repercussions.
They desperately project and hope for unwanted transference relations to prevent the responsibility falling squarely where it belongs, with them and their ongoing SUD because they donât want to quit and want to continue to get high. Excuses for rigorous resolution of the SUD are expected in those with an SUD as well no matter what massive damage it is doing to others around them. Nobodyâs high is worth any of that.
Confrontation is not skillful intervention. In fact, it can do real damage. Just like supervision, skillful intervention has a whole slew of research content to do it well in a way that will actually work. Artless confrontation is just that, artless, and will just maximize shame.
Kernberg (1984) has argued that malignant narcissism, at its core, represents a thorough infiltration of aggression into the grandiose sense of self that is found in narcissistic personalities. He (Kernberg, 1984) observes that the malignant narcissist experiences an increase in self-esteem and confirmation of their grandiose sense of self when they express aggression toward others, taking pleasure in cruelty and sadistic actions. Such a person may even pleasurably experience self-mutilation behaviors.
Narcissistic policing that thinks there are no repercussions for equating ignorance with bliss: Feldman has been doing his due diligence for thirteen years, and his pain signal has been dampened down like a mass body on mass opioids. Then individuals wonder where and why the damage is happening to them, not taking this seriously. Such a signature should be a signal of contracted Hollywood-style police infestation.
Narcissistic spending narratives that aren't even true: When it starts doing this to people not even remotely interested in its culture due to its inability to control its corruption all the way now into its infesting influence on the courtroom, all that money on the premises of âincreased securityâ and âincreased managementâ for apparently more vulnerable individuals is a complete joke.
Narcissists had trouble differentiating active learning for the learner from which the public might also secondarily benefit from reporting and assistance
Narcissistic callousness is more common then we think, we would be startled by how common almost comedic common vanity is. Repeatedly individuals trying to discuss the obvious as detailed in âAn Open Secretâ are met with the cold shoulder. That this many people are complicit is a revelation of the real everyday monsters that surround us, more than we may think. Cory Feldmanâs quote on this supports this. That many people cold shouldering these two is unbelievably horrifying.
One 16 year old's life was cut short for feeding the appetite of a rock star. Not only was she given excesses of drugs that caused two underage victims to convulse, she was found dead a year later near a highway of alleged suicide. Her life was cut short just for being the drug fueled weekend sexual playground for a famous band member as a teenager. That shows extreme narcissism that this rock star thought he was that much more important than her. Many of us donât even know who he is.
Narcissistic vanity causing narcissistic otherization: Many victims described wanting to succeed but getting the feeling and look of combined efforts seeing the individual as their prey, barely even listening.
Narcissists attempt to destroy credibility. They find the source of credibility and try to destroy it. They also describe them purposefully cornering them or feeling like the whistleblowing mechanisms had been destroyed before you could even use them. Children were told not to be believed by over-the-head communication of the predator to the person they went to preemptively. Attempts to destroy their credit went easily with the most cowardly and corrupt in the industry.
Blackmail like any good old mafia was a way narcissists kept their almost schizophrenically literal heartless sacrificial hypercapitalism in place. He describes a technique of individuals involved in these pedophila-homicide intersections detecting who was ethical and intelligent enough to believe what victims, grooming potential whistleblowers and using tricks or false pretenses to get them on camera and âtry to own themâ. A real kompromat issue exists for ethical individuals. This kind of kompromat attempt is apparently a telltale sign.
Blackmail is used to keep actresses and actors under control. The whole thing is apparently just run like a cheap mob blackmailing the critical actors. Then they try to keep it in place saying "you're paying for security" or "you're paying for management" when this is the management and security.
Hollywood apparently has an issue helping itself to completely illegal joke experiments due to sheer narcissistic self-credentialing
Narcissistic self-credentialing into therapy. They do terrible work but still think they're most basic level behaviorism is somehow universally superior for every neurotype. (Plot twist: it's not). The piece cites the CIA purposefully studies the psychological/therapeutic notes of celebrities and uses it against every possible purpose it is meant for, but for social control. That is disgusting and an absolute violation of HIPAA.
The most corrupt try to sell the truth as an enemy of the state, often those involved in these cancerous level capitalisms. They mean âtheyâre an enemy of unsustainable greed in Hollywood centering on excessive narcissism such as narcissism so bad it demands human sacrifice when someone is xyz trait sufficient enough to substantially narcissistically injure themâ. This type of narcissist has been around for centuries.
When the network and underground governmental features of Hollywood are described, many report that those involved come off one way when in reality it is like they ânever knew [them] at allâ.
Especially young, impressionable youth were isolated for sex slavery or to âstarâ in snuff films. They really thought they were more important than these lives. These are probably the worst cases of narcissism you will ever see.
Victims judging other victims is seen with this report trying to say Shari Deniseâs was garbled while this report gets several sources very wrong such as saying Emily Berg instead of Amy Berg and Brice Taylor instead of Bryce Taylor. Once again, unable to win the war trying to get a battle characteristic of the hypocritical narcissist. This is a common theme, lacking solidarity and destroying each other due to narcissism issues.
As usual, entertainment is correctly cited as a method and means to escape that people are loathe to give up for this feature, even in cases like Rosemaryâs Baby where the surrounding story is too disturbing to ignore.Cowardice cloaks the crime from sheer weakness of personality.
The vengeful fight response then was validly criticized but the original reasons were shared by many the state did not identify as terrorists. The same grievances in a more getting-along/mutual intelligibility-associated response were seen as having valid concerns.
Hate can cause a hyperfocus that rationalizes a drive towards stalking that may belie a more fundamental drive towards object constancy in the narcissist.They use convenient narratives to get object constancy needs met, doing real disservice to the individual they are seeking out for object constancy willing to throw them under the bus just to get a narrative that rationalizes the object constancy needs. This clearly exposes the person willing to throw the object of fixation under the bus to get their object constancy needs met to be a narcissist.
Veiling may have even been an adaption to a population predisposed to just this constantly inaccurate projection-attachment without knowledgeable, voluntary or consensual therapeutic alliance (unpaid, unrespected, unlicensed = this is not a therapeutic alliance and will not be held to the standards of it). That said, itâs not fair for the onus to fall on the victim and that is a valid reason to fight against veiling.
The idea of a sacred object is behind valid defenses of object constancy but this only holds if the sacred object is actually treated as sacred; not disrespected, extorted, slandered, canât even make basic acknowledgments to the point it is disturbing etc. The use of this narrative with no signs they actually hold it sacred completely invalidates it on its face and they should be precluded from access on the basis of clear narcissism.
Antisocial-histrionic features are seen in the terrorist. They may also be driven by hate, trauma, humiliation, a search for identity and again, the histrionic antisocial attempt to get attention while actually being in real pain.
Grandiosity is the fuel of many of the organizations that organize terrorism.
Once recruit designs are in place due to valid concerns at valid and horrific injustices that become the impulse for these organizations, it is shocking the people that can be pulled in.
Fragile ethnic narcissism: Not only are people racialized, but their racial features are even made subject of religious scrutiny even more than this happens in America (see comparing Obama to Satan just because he black), with dark features called demonic or Satanic in probably the most pathetic instances of pure racist fragility witnessable to date, when many of these individuals still have very white skin, behaviors, and features. It is embarrassing to be around someone struggling that hard with that little in an ethnically-narcissistic manner.
Narcissistic self-award of competence against the evidence. If these experiences are ongoing, remorseless, and rationalized, even talked down as valid without strong intervention which is appreciated by people as we all struggle with tribal cohabitation in our own ways (see any Homeowners Association) it is rightful and just for a true hate at the incompetence dealing with the situation to boil in peopleâs hearts in the same way a rightful hate would be due if a group of people claimed to be in charge of the public waste system, with it pumping out millions of dollars from the government, when everywhere you look people had made their own toilets or were using grates dug in the ground.
Narcissistic exceptionalism that their act of violence will not have long lasting repurcussions: Foresight is required to remember and see that acts of violence always have unforeseen consequences that can be profoundly expensive and the idea that an act of violence will lead to catharsis and being finally free is just that; an illusion.
Exceptionalism/I'm different vanity in countries that the most racist/problematic perspectives view as all the same: Victims of Western racism became the victimizer as seen in Russia to the Chechens. The temptation to pass on the pain as a feeling of relieving catharsis got the best of them and only rigidified the inaccuracies still existent in a West still struggling with its own competence issues. This catharsis is an addiction and will never be anything other than the sloppy answer that makes it worse and further rigidifies the stereotypes of Russians.
Narcissistic scapegoating: After all, when a rich white man does something that exactly describes leaders and bosses in Nigeria, the descriptions of Nigeria as âthird worldâ when they are happening in what was once the alleged âfirst worldâ are put into relief.
Narcissistic struggle with right to life logic in existing already fully developed, beyond clump of cells, humans. Though everyone may not contribute equally and therefore should not be treated like someone who fails to contribute when they contribute quite a deal more, the idea that âall lives are equalâ means that we should never collapse into basic struggle with right to life which is probably one of the most embarrassing struggles when our contribution logic goes too far.
Narcissistic sexual pleasure derived from what was supposed to be effective intervention: Making one aware of what they have done is critical. Even for hardened psychopaths who may mock it or think itâs funny, every now and again they are forced to see just how massive and unforeseen their consequence was. Even where most of it may not reach them, they still are held to the few that do and must answer to what they have done for the rest of their lives. There should be no joy, lust or pleasure in this. It is just part of what is required to make this competently stop.
Narcissistic cursing/slur hypocrisy when put in relief to revenge pornography addictions: An attack against dignity is characterized by deliberate, weaponized humiliation. It is often an act against worth. For instance, revenge porn in a world that struggles with basic and embarrassing fragility about the realities of reproduction and the human body is not meant to highlight the womanâs beauty but it is meant to discredit them to these vain, fragile individuals and it does so successfully. These individuals are embarrassing and it is often sent the way of the most embarrassing, compulsive and out of control individuals. Its pathways must be tracked for this reason. Almost always a strong tie to just these embarrassingly denialist and fragile individuals who are completely bested by their appetites once they emerge while pretending to be superior to people in the same situation, such as the white-burdenist-extermanationist, are more than happy to devalue the victims on this without even basically looking at the surrounding features of the crime and identity and motive of the criminal. This is true incompetence. It is ironic that this not being valued or treated with dignity is the same complaint by these very fragilists who don't recognize and/or don't want to do anything about revenge porn when someone curses around someone or uses a slur. They don't even want to accept the possession of revenge porn is a crime. Revenge porn differs from porn because they don't want just anyone to see it. It creates an illusion to the viewer that the person would ever even once be willing to get intimate with them emotionally or physically to any degree when they would never due to seeing hypocrisies like these. These networks of exploitative narcissism must be tracked. It is meant for a relationship or a specific person. One of these people abused their privilege out of narcissistic rage (revenge porn). Regular defenses of pornography are not in order when that was a private relationship and they don't want just anyone to see it. There are a lot of people they would never, ever want to see it. It is not their place to reject something they would have never been given access to now that they know they would never have had access, it is their place to bring this up with the criminal who did this and derive their identity and motive (humiliating the victim). And yet, this is precisely who they won't out, demonstrating they are criminals who also want a cover to attack and humiliate the victim. And there are the exact same people claiming a) lack of dignity and b)lack of worth around cussing and slurs. True hypocrites are not somebody most people would ever consent to a relationship with. Lack of dignity and lack of value intersect. Self-defense against such hypocrites looking for any cover to hurt, devalue and humiliate a woman to whatever degree required to push them back is in order. This is to make it clear how unwanted their intimate attentions are and how out of access they are to them on the grounds of just this kind of hypocrisy, disrespect, and uselessness.
Narcissistic exceptionalism that their act of violence will not have long lasting repurcussions: Foresight is required to remember and see that acts of violence always have unforeseen consequences that can be profoundly expensive and the idea that an act of violence will lead to catharsis and being finally free is just that; an illusion.
America had such an attractive reputation in Chechyna but once arrived, the Tsaernevs saw fit to ruin it as an intersection between real narcissistic proclivity and untreated depression and PTSD (a depressed/traumatized perception is not going to be satisfied by much), saying âAfter ten years they [already] wanted out.â when that is comparatively quite a long time for the country to have granted asylum/immigration opportunity to someone who may be miserable with asylum as a personality weakness or due to having valid concerns.
Envy, omnipotence and hatred are specifically narcissistic features found on those that demand object constancy only to do violence or disrespect to them. It attacks links of dependency and trust on others.
This mirrors the antisocial histrionic who wants the attention of an intact viewing network, but then shatters the very trust that allows that infrastructure to exist through isolating acts of trust violation as terrorism. It is narcissistic at the core.
Integrating victimization without expelling it or being rendered powerless and passive is part of a mature psyche that has worked its way through the narcissistic compulsions to do just this.
Acknowledging that one failed to have the ideal self or the decisive-on-all-sides victory one hoped for keeps a mature mastery over the psychological abyss of narcissistic injury when denial of these results lead to the inflations of narcissism that can fuel terrorism/genocidal acts.
Similarly, there are less religious experiences and more narcissistic ones. Retaliation, for example, is seen as impulsive and not mindful, precise or accurate at all.
Mourning a narcissistically disappointing object can be a reason for jihad. This is arguably more narcissistic and less religious. For instance, a daughter where a boy should allegedly be would be pure narcissistic disappointment. Nobody is entitled to a male child, much less any children at all.
Impulsive retaliation happening again and again not able to change or stop was linked to narcissistic injury. .
Ironically, a mocking of the newfound vulnerability or once-was of America is seen as if they are themselves trying to break down American narcissism, but then to do so from a place of ongoing retaliation suggesting mutual narcissistic injury.
In an addiction, foresight-less gluttony for winning experiences, narcissistic states may take away all effective voice and actually incentivize violence with the very institutions meant to prevent it such as incompetent and pedophilic courts, police, hospitals and other critical infrastructures.
Again, diversity opens up some combinations of cohabiting principles where many of them unchecked stand to do real damage to the overall diversity. Diverse ecosystems are miracles easily thrown out of balance by narcissistic energies.
Entitled to superiority in narcissistic rage: When they refused, it led to the Britain first trying even harder to sell what they knew would weaken the Chinese to psychological influence and then actually started a war. Ultimately the will of China was broken and then what their will was broken for was used to consider them weaker or inferior. The violent attempt to enforce a population to be on drugs for a combination of social control and weakening the Chinese is relatively unique to Britain and is absolutely harrowing and horrific.
Narcissistic entitlement to social control and superiority and the victim's pushback: Even this successful enforcement of the very means and mechanisms that cause the narcissistic psychological inflation saw a revolution to push back.
Betrayal of the victim, and identification with the perpetrator even if not shared: Though one instance of violence is not a rationalization for another, which is exactly Chinaâs issue of Japan, the Rape of Nanking is a good example of the betrayal of the victim. Japan saw the weakness and jumped on it identifying with the predator and trying to capitalize on the exploitation.
Narcissistic satellites trying to profit by proxy on the narcisisst's damage even in the narcissist does not reciprocate identification: Like any victim cornered violently in and essentially tortured forced to be on opium which only serves as a valid excuse for a short time, China lashed out. Japan continued to exploit the situation, somehow identifying with the Western imperialist who hated and mocked them on the basis of shared imperialism alone it seemed.
Narcissistic satellites trying to profit by proxy on the narcisisst's damage even in the narcissist does not reciprocate identification: Like any victim cornered violently in and essentially tortured forced to be on opium which only serves as a valid excuse for a short time, China lashed out. Japan continued to exploit the situation, somehow identifying with the Western imperialist who hated and mocked them on the basis of shared imperialism alone it seemed.
Narcissists operate largely on humiliation for social control. It is not a competent, sustainable form of social control. Humiliation is an act of supremacy enforcement. Anybody who does it is involved in some kind of supremacy enforcement.
Narcissists in extreme narcissistic rage sometimes express the humiliation impulse by slavery: A refusal to be a slave people was seen on the Chinese. âWe insist on our rights. We insist on our parity, and will proudly defend the sovereignty of our territory and Chinaâs dignity as a great power in the world.â
Narcissists couldn't outthink their narcissism and felt that their view of the situation override and would create within a person the same internal experience as they were feeling due to projection and object constancy issues. It did not. "A narcissistic logic is cited that if narcissists view you as humiliated you actually are when this is an internal experience not for others to decide. They actually think they are a measure of anotherâs internal experience. Thus, they have no inner concept of dignity and are only told by others if they are dignified which is a very undignified position."
Where valid humiliation ends and narcissistic injury starts is a subject of further research, but narcissistic injury usually starts where people feel entitled to an undeserved superiority.
Humiliation is tied to intent to create the conditions to complete rpe and sexual violence. Acts meant to humiliate where the perpetrator is obsessed and hyperfixated with finding signs of humiliation show premeditation and conspiring for the conditions and foundations of rpe and sexual violence. Even if the act is not directly sexual, it often betrays a sexual representation of the situation at the perpetrator's core, such as the sergeant who scram so often and so extremely at his platoon that he had to be fired due to it becoming clear it had a sexual nature for him. This should be considered an obvious sign of a narcissist and a person capable of sexual violence. Hartling and Luchette put forth a valid definition. Humiliation entails demeaning treatment that transgresses established expectations. The victim is forced into passivity, acted upon, and made helpless.23
Humiliation is an act of supremacy enforcement. Anybody who does it is involved in some kind of supremacy enforcement. The fact it intersects with dehumanization shows that supremacists do not exist in a vacuum and they take constant and active enforcement, such as targeted humiliation.
Narcissists are attracted to social darwinism which is a rigorous representation of the human with low bonding whose intelligence ceiling starts collapsing around altruism. The fallacies of Social Darwinism are that these are valid strategies when more sustainable, prosocial interaction styles preclude any use of humiliation on its trust-destroying, anti-social, almost immediately collapsing nature.
Ongoing narcissistic castles in the air are actively kept in their long-term unsustainable position by narcissistic specific strategy like humiliation.
Clear narcissism in violating IP law and claiming what is not one's own for money and its relationship to essentially having an addiction. Chinaâs hyperfixation reaches unsustainable levels that resemble the patterns of addiction and like addiction come with deep hostility for the substance depended on and resentment that manifests as anti-imperialism.
Narcissistic omnipotence is based in a basic desire to aggressively dominate a victim to make their ability to relieve themselves of the relation as close to impossible as can be achieved, and such an impulse is a core root of violence, not a solution to it.
Narcissist victim exceptionalism, thinking acts of violence upon innocents does not suddenly switch them to the perpetrator and that they are no longer the victim once they victimize others like this. As usual, the victim is the victim until they actively become the perpetrator to try to project their victimization onto something else and then destroy it.
Narcissists often violate the therapeutic space. Whether China is actually safe to reengage with its ancient past when some of the ghosts of British imperialism willing to commit that kind of torture on a clearly rejecting population are still all too alive and all too willing to jump in, interrupt, and devalue all over again is up for discussion.
Narcissists claim victimization and do real violence to the narrative to get away with Humiliation and torture as a means and method of social control. Humiliation and being a victim of torture are profound identity changes that can be isolating for those who donât understand them and have never gone through them, much less even have the vocabulary to achieve mutual intelligibility. Germ warfare experiments during the Rape of Nanking and enforced addiction are actual torture scars on China.
Narcissists have compulsion problems and may genuinely desire alternative mates. They do not properly reflect on the risk to their relationship due to compulsion issues and often lose their relationships acting in this way causing lasting narcissistic injury that is the subject of long, ongoing rumination.
Grandiose narcissists induce jealousy for power and control, vulnerable narcissists induce jealousy as a means to acquire power and control, get revenge, strengthen and test the relationship, seek security, and compensate for low self-esteem.
Grandiose narcissists have a confident approach that is the most stereotypical assignment of a narcissist. The problem is the confidence is noxious and kept in place by a series of abusive, inflated behaviors. However, when self-esteem itself is considered narcissistic one is dealing with the low self-esteem vulnerable narcissist who struggles with ongoing low self-esteem and resents and hate the visible presence of strong, stable self-esteem precisely because they do not have it.
Narcissists, as a pattern, strategically attempt to stoke jealousy in their partners on purpose. As usual, this is not an appealing or sustainable characteristic in a partner as it leads to instability and inability to invest safely emotionally, financially, or physically.
Narcissists introduce their partners to rivals in what they consider a strategic move that ultimately is deeply incompetent insofar as it destabilizes the relationships and makes it less than what it could have been if they had the personality strength to not engage in this action. The levels of what it could have been become increasingly locked off by this individual instances where they fail to self-control.âJealousy induction refers to behaviors (e.g., flirting with others; discussing attractive rivals) that are designed to elicit perceived relationship threats in the partner via the presence of rivals.â
Narcissists, as a pattern, strategically attempt to stoke jealousy in their partners on purpose. As usual, this is not an appealing or sustainable characteristic in a partner as it leads to instability and inability to invest safely emotionally, financially, or physically.
Narcissists view relationships as a game. Sincerity is seen as a form of vulnerability and they are not really capable of it.
Narcissists spend most of their time in relationships getting revenge. Even the slightest thing can induce revenge for years, especially if envy is induced and they feel narcissistically humiliated by the envy the other person induces. Their revenge will be in ratio to the humiliation they feel at the proportion of envy felt. Thus, excessive envy causes excessive revenge. If they had never been spoken to or considered for a relationship they would have no revenge to take.
Triangulation in relationships is a broken attempt to try to relieve personal insecurity. It should be taken as a sign the narcissist feels vulnerable to the person theyâre trying to relieve their narcissistic injury against by triangulating.
Grandiose narcissists have a secure and dismissive attachment style.
Vulnerable narcissists have a possessive love style and may triangulate due to having a possession-based injury and trying to exact revenge.
The sought out partner has a more narcissistically flattering position that the narcissist would like to be associated with for the narcissism of it.
Narcissists often study their victims for just this purpose, often to a massively embarrassing degree when viewed from an outside perspective. They may grow especially frustrated when a nerve point that was supposed to work suddenly stops working as it was intended to force this person to stay in or be in a relationship with them. It is normal and natural to want nothing to do with an abuser who would do such a thing and to permanently terminate their access so they can never do it again. It is not a sign of callousness or coldness, it is a sign of competence and personality strength and this claim is the last ditch effort of the successfully removed abuser. Stability is everything
It was found that revenge motives, surprisingly, were more likely to be coming from the vulnerable narcissistic psychology as opposed to the grandiose one. Individuals obsessed with cultures of revenge therefore were more likely to be in the vulnerable narcissism type presenting grandiose.
Vulnerable narcissists were more clearly linked to low self-esteem when engaged in creating jealousy in their partner.
Grandiose narcissists were found to have less of a low self-esteem motive than vulnerable narcissists for creating jealousy and manipulating feelings. It was found they viewed it to have a governmental feature, keeping the people in their lives in check. The psychological damage it did did just the opposite of this, it was ruinous for everyone involved, showing narcissists are attracted to positions they are incompetent with.
Interestingly, the paper found that vulnerable narcissists, not grandiose narcissists, were the ones most likely to be found in revenge cultures and obsession with revenge.
Verbal abuse and violence were ways for vulnerable narcissists to exact revenge. The motive was narcissistic injury. The nature of the revenge would help decipher exacting revenge about what. As is predictable for narcissists, sometimes it was humiliation at the very type of existence of a person. That is narcissistic humiliation and revenge.
The use of the scapegoat to relieve unbelievable levels of narcissistic envy during the season of the birth of Christ: The buildup of psychic contagion, the rapid and often unconscious spread of envy in a group, often leads to violence upon an innocent victim or scapegoat. The catharsis resulting from this violence against the scapegoat, which for Girard amounts to a sacrifice, restores equilibrium in the community, assuaging the intracommunal conflict, at least temporarily, until the mimetic rivalry builds momentum again. The cycle of violence is endemic and hopeless for human beings, at least without divine intervention. Godâs incarnation in Jesus provides the ultimate sacrificeâthe innocent victim who is scapegoated. For Girard, this represents the sacrifice to end all sacrifices, and Jesusâ resurrection is the new beginning that provides hope for the beginning of the end of violence in human history.
Magical literalism is often used by the narcissist to relieve feelings of gross incompetence by the narcissist: That said, upon material reality, material science is the critical tool and cannot ever be replaced by magical literalism which was an old tool of the past to assuage feelings of powerlessness upon a reality and nature that did not have the sufficiently rigorous tools to fix the situation.
Mortality, death, limits, and feelings of limitedness and vulnerability can create narcissistic injury.
Feelings of being limited, confused, struggling create narcissistic injury.
With decreasing magical literalism comes sufficient levels of life that lead to less constant feelings of fear, anxiety, and narcissistic injury in death-charged experiences.
Increasing scientific fraud and increasing butchering of the use of data to create inaccurate narratives shows that narcissism often bests comprehension of the critical nature of adhering to the methodology. They show no comprehension of the long term consequences of what theyâre doing when they engage in scientific fraud, and then worldwide consequences are seen.
Histrionic reasoning in the narcissistically injured reliance on magical literalism: Histrionic features stemming from a root cause of cognitive overwhelm become less and less as the individual body has less and less to battle with in addition to the other comprehensions at hand.
Imperviousness as a compensation often is behind the vanity impulse. If one can prove one is deeply special, they are safe from things other, normal people have to deal with. This is often a response for some feature of the self that feels deeply inferior, worthless, or worthy of self-hatred.
When the expectation the narcissist creates is not delivered on due to gross incompetence, psychological damage is seen. A developmental expectation had been created of competence in just these critical matters which the actual reality of practice could not deliver on. The heartbreak, horror, anguish and anger was a valid response especially for the amount of money the tsarist governmental organizational style was taking from the country.
Narcissistic conceptions of intelligence in America: American anti-intellectualism has roots in a psychopathic beauty contest; the more one is able to successfully fool others, the more intelligent one is. This is not the meaning of intelligence.
Anti-intellectualism is behind much of the de-intelligencing association with trust-rupturing antisocial behavior. In fact intelligence requires language and reference to actual refer to what it is in symbolic relation to strongly. This particular confusion of anti-intelligence with intelligence apparently seems strictly American.
Civilized sadism as an example of American specific sadism. A narcissistic civilized sadism, consisting of interpersonal injustice such as ongoing triangulation and decoupling of language from meaningful reference, continues to pervade society. Some things that are actually massively psychologically destructive are seen as normal or expectable, when in fact the collective reaction shows that they are neither normal or something the human psyche either wants or expects. Thus the massive pop movement against narcissism that needs scientific, rigorously and carefully cited structuring to actually get somewhere and prevent the psychological pain.
Casual sadism is behind much of American narcissistic obsession and oblivion.
Narcissists completely devalue the inner experience of the victim to try to make them a codependent object of their perspectives: Such a complete devaluation of the inner experience to be beautiful for the consumption of the other shows a profound destruction of the self-esteem to create a controllable codependency, rendering us machines of capitalism whose internal experience is somehow allowed to be reduced to fractions.
Predatory lurking and jealousy at the youth of others are seen on narcissists
Narcissistic failure to understand intelligence as psychopathic anti-intellectualism in the American serial killer cult following: To the anti-intellectualist, psychopathy is the measure of grandeur and intelligence, characterized by the American valorization and cult following of long dead serial killers. This includes a refusal to accept a âtsunami of evidenceâ of just how violent what they did was not only to the bodies of their victims but to the reality of truth to its reference which is a fabric that can be irreparably harmed.
Narcissistic specific avoidance and devaluation of math and science due to narcissistic injury at lack of mastery due to broken logic features inherent to the narcissistic personality (struggling with rigorous citation due to the narcissistic injury to vanity in doing such a thing that many others have something valid and helpful to say that they worked hard for. Struggling with factual inaccuracies inherent in mathematics that cannot be argued with; things either balance on a scale or they don't). Narcissistic injury in the face of math and science was seen, trying to completely devalue math and science as befits a narcissist who especially struggles to master this material. An attempt to psychologize math and science instead of just doing math and science for reasons those good at math and science do them was seen showing an avoidance struggle and fear of the precision-death capacity in mathematics. Proofs take out the gamble, and also erase the corruption.
Narcissists experience attraction as an âego threatâ and can become terrified of the people they're attracted to just because they're attracted to them.
Attraction suggests ego death (narcissists genuinely get angry that someone has compelled more attraction in them towards the object of their attraction than towards themselves) and therefore, due to a rigid narcissistic construct, is deeply threatened and terrified.
It also suggests that attraction suggests ego death (narcissists genuinely get angry that someone has compelled more attraction in them towards the object of their attraction than towards themselves) and therefore, due to a rigid narcissistic construct, is deeply threatened and terrified.
They are threatened by their own attraction due to a narcissistic rigidity, in combination with projecting their own antisocial features and envious ill will towards the attractive person onto the attractive person.
Especially in ego-dystonic sexual attractions, narcissists will project their anger at ego-dystonic attraction onto the victim. If the attraction is too ego dystonic, such as a racist attracted to someone they perceive to be a minority, they may force the facts of criminality to feel better about the ego dystonic attraction (they are just doing police work, they are just doing xyz, when the straws become more and more embarrassingly grasped at from an outside perspective).
âmaking a murdererâ type overt creation of a scapegoat is not an intelligent or acceptable impulse. It is an attempt to get someone else to do the dirty work of their inner repressed envy and rage given they are already attractive and the object of fantasy and they have a fantasy of expressing their psychotic envy without being stopped. They believe this attractive person would be more able to get away with it and they subconsciously hope to watch their own desires be expressed through obsession with them. Even describing the situation as "programming them" with dehumanization features of language are seen in this specific narcissistic-attraction-scapegoat system.
This kind of scapegoating is not legal or ethical at all. That is someoneâs whole life that does not owe the narcissist anything, especially its own ruination. The individual acts out the envious ruination impulse in the obsessive/fixated other who has developed them into an object of scapegoated fantasy, and then is themselves ruined by the criminal charges. This itself is a criminal and unethical act. Sometimes this impulse in the scapegoating narcissist becomes embarrassingly obvious, desperate and pathetic, revealing its inner workings.
Essentially the narcissist helps themselves to a torturous position towards their victim just because theyâre both envious and attracted to them. This is the narcissistic noxious feature; they have no right to such a position just because they are attracted to them. That is someoneâs whole life that does not need to get interrupted for someoneâs combination of desire to see the common violent envious fantasy expressed and general sexual gluttony.
When vast disproportion in a crime to the precipitating factor is seen, narcissistic injury is usually the culprit.
The nearly religious insistence on the attractiveness of self to all individuals without looking or examining causes or reasons for rejection as if to do so would be a practically religious offense clearly reveals the inherent narcissism.
Reactive violence is essentially the cognitive stops that ensure prosocial action have been overpowered by some other feature of the personâs personality, aka, the personality has collapsed in the face of some antisocial impulse.
The projection was so overwhelming it essentially completely disorganized the internal reference, caused a completely psychologically disorganized liberation of the psychotic impulse and then reorganized it antecedently with an objectively incorrect self-flattery to restructure the shame feature at having such a psychotic feature one is clearly more or less unable to control.
Repressed hatred of oneâs homoeroticism and right to the attention of other men compared to a woman and the competition the repressed homoerotic man wants to punish therefore becomes a viable deeper possible dynamic at play in these acts of allegedly straight incel violence. A sense of an adult male competing for the father's attention instead of having identified with and developed into the archetype of father (as understood as responsible and stable) themselves is seen.
Narcissistic reactive violence occurs when narcissistic injury overwhelms the individualâs ability to cope. The key feature is intense, disorganized, unstructured and unarticulated affective states. Mature psychological defenses fail to dissipate the unbearable affects, overwhelming the individualâs capacity to cope.
Due to the repressed aggression features having their stops overwhelmed, before the violence a sense of repressed aggression paranoia is seen projecting their violent impulses onto the potential victims and coming up with narratives of being controlled, attacked, or persecuted to rationalize the violence they want to engage from an ego-syntonic position. The mind has completely lost control of its ability to determine if this is correct or not due to the massive, overwhelming projective nature of the psychotic response to narcissistic injury.
Narcissists tend to get narcissistically injured often to a disturbing amount in everyday life, and to have disproportionate reactions to narcissistic injuries those without narcissism may find unbelievable. Their personality collapses more often and more violently.
Unbelievably entitled and aggressive impulses that are truly hard to accept when truly viewed in their full light characterize narcissistic rage as deeply anchored, unrelenting compulsion and utter disregard for reasonable limitations. This gives these narcissistic rage expressions their truly hard to believe element. Itâs so hard to believe someone would go that hard over that little, but when they do, in most cases itâs narcissistic rage.
Not being allowed to stay in an unsustainably grandiose expression can create the more âbrattyâ type unbelievable response.
Individuals with inflated or unstable self-esteem, aka high prevalence of codependent and externalized appraisal structures in their self-esteem calculation design, tend to be more prone to aggression.
Anger and aggression after narcissistic injury tended to be directed and who the narcissist thought was the cause of the narcissistic injury.
Mature responses to narcissistic injury do not cause immense disorganization in the personality. They are identified by mature defenses. Sublimation is among one of the mature defenses.
Without mature defenses to narcissistic injury, overblown psychosis shows effects beforehand. These include hallucinations, stupor, dissociative fugue states, and delusional ideation.
Narcissism as a broken colonial ghost. Instrumental violence is seen on the colonialist ghosts of the hotel in The Shining where they suggest âviolent correctionâ. Obviously it doesnât work and destroys the whole family, just as it does for the ghosts. The violence of both crimes, original and copycat, are deeply psychotic and stem from narcissistic injury far overblown to the precipitating event.
In the movie, Jack is in narcissistic injury due to his writing skill. He processes his narcissistic injury on his wife and child, attempting to make them bear the feeling of not-enoughness (abuse of his wife under the pretext she is not enough) and narcissistic injury (implicit messages about what Jack is doing to his child) instead. The obsession with stealing other peopleâs lines and just reformatting them shows their real feelings about others and their own inferiority relationship to them that they canât handle the shame of and attempt to project on others.
His attacks on his wife then show that he is attempting desperately to blame what he knows was wrong on her and to make her feel it is her fault. If only she was more this, more that, and then uses that to engage in violence against her when it is fundamentally his character flaw often seen on those with NPD.
Profound inability to be stable is seen on the personality liable to explosive narcissistic injury.
The idea that grandiosity leads to inspiration is seen, when in fact true internal self-connection and real feelings of love and connection create a feeling of real profundity that no mere perceived grandiosity can compete with in terms of inspiration.
Surging sadistic impulses underlying the narcissistic injury are seen. He becomes increasingly sadistic to his wife and child, dissatisfied with himself and with his life as a father but most of all dissatisfied with his own writing.
The underlying psychological message, intuited in a deep way, may be that around those so narcissistic as those that frequented the hotel, to be vulnerable is almost completely impossible and is so hated and looked down upon it can make one a target almost immediately for not only sexual violence but also murder.
Narcissists tend to be unable to break the cycle. Again, just this energy is seen in the âcolonial pass downâ of the hotel to its new caretaker. And again, it failed and broke the system as it failed and broke this one. The idea that it is to âdeal with them in the harshest way possibleâ just leads to psychosis, trauma, and complete psychological disorganization it is almost impossible to psychologically wade through from inside of it. Jack just repeats the cycle of what he was told happened last time.
Narcissistic cowardice. Perhaps this violence is an admission of defeat and a feeling by someone deeply confused that theyâll never be able to actually figure out the problem so theyâll just destroy everything that they were trying to save by attempting to solve it. This is in combination with the fight response clearly being evoked by the circumstances they have put themselves in their family in, but no sense that it will succeed being intuited, so instead they just use it on those most vulnerable to them from what is unfortunately a narcissistic cowardice.
Narcissistic image distortion by narcissists who don't get what they want: The infiltration of the massive psychotic impulse into the perceptual appraisal symptom shows how the somatic sense is still being projected onto external facts and skewing and distorting their more accurate apprehension. This explains image distortion, especially in sexual violence offenders where the crime often carries energy of homicide which requires a good deal of psychotic energy to actually complete.
Narcissists harbor internalized self-rejection and if someone comes to be seen as a reflection, property or extension of them, they will treat them as they treat themselves; take out their internalized self-rejection and blame them for it.
No amount of grandiosity beats the addiction feature of grandiose narcissistic compensation: The Shining shows how no amount of space if a feeling of being âclosed inâ and therefore committed will relieve the narcissist; Jack enjoys a huge space and still develops cabin fever, ironically running through large halls and rooms to still cause harm to his wife and child even with the huge space he is given. This shows it isn't about external constraints, but about narcissistic personality disorder.This seems to be Kubrickâs point; itâs not so much about the smallness of space but the bigness of the ego which in ratio to the space renders it small again. Thus, this is a particularly keen example of grandiosity as an inflationary response to deep feelings of smallness and inadequacy that will never suffice because it is just that, inflationary.
Intersections of narcissistic Injury for inadequacy and increasingly grandiose expression: People with the lowest self-esteem need the most excessive and grandiose compensation to feel even normal and even that will not be enough, such as Jackâs dissatisfaction even in the huge home. It is not an aesthetic expression but something they really feel they need to compensate for a collapsed ego. In this case, Jackâs collapsed ego stems from narcissistic injury to do with his writing skill.
Narcissistic males prefer being the sole provider, but then resent those they provide for, showing again they want a position they are not the best fit for due to narcissism issues: Woes with providing and provider insecurity are also seen; Jack feels he has no other way to provide except for caretaking the hotel and then trying to write but his writing is even disturbing to his wife who canât believe the one line he is writing over and over with different formatting. He takes out his provider insecurity on them, unable to provide, and resenting them for even needing to.
Sadism, mocking, and bullying in the narcissistic divorce: When the husband is especially sadistic, a bully and nasty to his wife, Islam encourages divorce.
Narcissists use others to get high; if not in the positive, then in the negative. Narcissistic high attenuation in the narcissist: Like all people with addiction, no high is high enough and the body will attenuate. That is not the fault of the victim. That is the narcissist's personal responsibility.
Isolation and narcissism: Isolation can be a way to protect from a narcissist and narcissistic environments, especially in the case of collective narcissism, but it might also be a way to express narcissism by considering oneself better than rigorous embeddedness and citation of a variety of perspectives, voices, and contributions. âA narcissist refers to an individual who often shows excessive admiration for himself or his appearance, feels as always important, always needs attention and lacks empathy for others.â
Even if a narcissist is doing a bad job, effect is effect to the narcissist and they will consider any sort of effect, even unsustainable, negative effect to be a sign of power in the world which they use for narcissistic supply.
The use of extreme violence, bullying, and other features when the narcissist still wants to stay in relationship very clearly may be an attempt to beat down the self-esteem in competent others to conspire for just this situation that stokes their vanity. Women may be left behind for long periods, silenced or blocked, only for them to find out when they take action and cut off the person that they didnât really think that would be really the end when most sane, healthy people would definitely consider that the absolute end.
Narcissists show a profound ability to gaslight. Depending on who they are talking to, they will change their narrative to disparage others, lie about other sources of self-enhancement to prevent their interrupted engagement, and otherwise act more like a child playing a game than a warm-blooded adult mammal in a relationship. The different âcogsâ in the machine would probably be deeply disturbed to find out what they were saying about them, sometimes to a horrific level, so the narcissistâs gaslighting also serves to keep them isolated and to prevent their full talking by activating us vs. them in opposing supply whenever possible.
Attractiveness/looks gaslighting can occur when a narcissist clearly trying to keep the person in the relationship and possessive of the person attempts to destroy their self-esteem and keep them from trying to find a more worthy, less abusive partner. This is the gaslighterâs attempt to destroy the core worth self-esteem to keep them in the relationship and keep them thinking thatâs the best they can do, when in fact this type of abuser can be seen clearly trying to keep or make a relationship with the person and does so by destroying their self-esteem because they do not have enough of the qualities to keep them in a relationship without this abuse. These types tend to know they are not the person's best option and use literally anything they can to try to entrap, shame, or destroy the self-esteem of their victim. For instance, I was once attacked for not only decorating my room but "doing it too fast" two months into living at a room I paid the full costs of. They were desperate for anything to rationalize morally what anyone who wasn't morally challenged would know was wrong.
A good example of a hyper-gaslighting victim would be Leonard Shelby from Memento where it is hinted and suggested people are changing his rooms and keeping him from his notes as his memory fragments to get him to do their murder dirty work. They show a particularly disturbing behavior of changing the locations of key items, stealing them and watching and studying the response, and then later putting them back or having a narrative about how crazy the person is.
Gaslighters engineer the situation to get the victim to blame themselves. For instance, if they have a compulsive inability to not cheat, they will try to find a narrative for why their cheating is retaliatory even if it is complete stretch like leaving a comment on a Facebook post. In fact, they just wanted to cheat from compulsivity issues and wanted the victim to blame themselves as they put their ego being syntonic over actual interactional justice. That selfishness is a signature of the narcissistic personality disorder.
If someone comes in and breaks up the gaslighting, having identified the gaslighter is abusive and attempting to attack their self-esteem to keep them in the relationship, the gaslighter will try to isolate them and turn them against what would have otherwise been their support. Unbelievably aggressive attempts to infiltrate the support network through social media and other means are seen on not only gaslighters but also human traffickers who also use gaslighting techniques to isolate their selected victims, often selected precisely for the activity they see illegally on things like the Facebook backend which is a hotbed for human traffickers due to its purposefully weakened backend protection and its history as a human pricing/appraisal website.
For instance, traffickers may take their victim outside their state or country to a state or country with a dilapidated government and police and try to break their will to report there and then bring them back to the state or country with the stronger governments so theyâre too afraid to try there. Example countries are Russia, Romania, India, and Thailand. All four are notorious for a human trafficking problem.
Explaining narcissistically injurious experiences in the most injurious way that isnât even correct to destroy their self-esteem as greatly as possible is seen as well, to keep them under control and doubting themselves. The trafficker may also pretend they are the personâs boyfriend or girlfriend while having no intention to actually be in a full relationship with them.
Victims can blame themselves for self-defense actions and if this happens this is gross incompetence with the situation. Ironically, if you donât do this and get passively raped or otherwise, they will blame you for showing no signs of wanting it to stop as well. In either case they will blame you; theyâre therefore not worth listening to because they have no situation in which you donât get blamed. Only a competent professional is worth talking to.
Narcissitic devaluation when they don't get what they want in the illegal human trafficking context: After ongoing structural sexual violence, the victimââs self-esteem may be completely destroyed, their self-confidence completely shattered, their sense of reality completely untethered now that it is free from the poisons of the abuser, and social support can be shattered and turned against them after decades-long campaigns and tirades, especially by human traffickers. Human trafficking can happen to anyone; someone can see you on the street and want to have sex with you and then force there to be a structure and narrative to achieve that sex. In especially weak areas, victims of this sexual gluttony can be disturbingly common. An abuser who acts in a similar fashion can happen to anyone. It is nothing the victim particularly did; all sorts of different types of victims are predated. Itâs also critical to not listen to the abuserâs gaslighting. Though they may not value you specifically to drive your self-esteem down to make you a better victim, they may be spending pathetic amounts surrounding you to keep you down.
Narcissistic devaluation post-divorce due to the narcissistic injury to the divorced spouse: There needs to be existing support systems to catch the victims of those who entered a marriage and where the partner was not competent enough to hold it sacred. These individuals are often likely to be victim-blamed and disparaged, when in fact they did the right thing and role modeled putting their life quality, hearts, and self-esteem first.
Ongoing aggressive and offensive narcissistic devaluation well after the fact is essentially evidence the victim was right to break up with/block/divorce this person: Divorce is right when narcissistic sadism, nastiness, retaliation, extreme vanity, adversarialism to their partner, bullying, hatred, domestic violence addiction, stalking, normalized contempt, and other loveless acts are seen.
An insight into envy even if envy is present constitutes âgraceâ, where most humans, limited as we are, feel envy at some point.
Inordinate, covetous envy as dissatisfied desire is put forward theologically as the root of human selfishness and violence.
In theological Christian studies, acts of Satan are considered those where someone didnât do anything but is forced to bear the burdens of the sins, shames, rages, and angers of the groupâs massive envy toward the innocent. This is Satanic for true innocents. It is a personification of the narcissistic scapegoat.
The work on human trafficking shows how innocents targeted for sexual gluttony are then not only predated sexually but forced to bear the shame, anger, and unbearable envy of the group that scapegoated them with false narratives to criminalize them in order to drive their self-esteem and self-value down in order to gain sexual access for sexual gluttony. Forcing the victim to blame themselves is often seen in human trafficking, while the sexually gluttonous look on and lick their lips.
Now, Satan due to this envy has become anything but. The envy has rendered what was once an angel now instead capable of some of the most unbelievable and horrific acts lost deep in the filth laden maze of pathologically vulnerable narcissism. How an angel could become so profoundly lost in violent envy is part of the horror of Satan; we believe angels to be impervious to such things yet behind the scenes, there they are in their full glory, completely consumed by this dark, crippling envious rage.
casual sadism, mockery, verbal abuse of pitches unimaginable, violence of a nature unbelievable. Accepting just how often this happens behind closed doors in the hearts of others when one is not looking can be not only horrific but suffocating. The hatred, vitriol, lack of celebration, resentful grotesque mocking and lovelessness all twisting its grotesque body around the tools of torturous envy of vulnerable narcissism reveal themselves in theological studies as acts of Satan.
In the depths of confusion and guesswork, the theological Satanic writhing contortions of narcissistically vulnerable social appraisals came to bear (the narcissistic comparative guess and check hell, instead of the measure of one's work against a standard self-consistent unto itself, such as a singer to a tuning fork or a math student to the answer key).
One does not have to know everything to trust what is necessary will be revealed as it is found to be necessary. No high is lusted after, no Satanic ambition can lead to and imply the lurking Satanic collapse where Satanism here means failure to comprehend and the suffering that comes with that.
Without grace, vanity and envy come to consume the soulâif you have ever heard someone singing slightly off key, it throws into relief the lack of harmony to the state of the note and has a deeply grating effect. The correction is not possible without a lack of narcissism; learning to be taught by the reality of the pitch and coming to be in increasing tune to it. The same is true of any educative material. It is better to accept the threat to ego of being out of pitch and fixing that than continuing to grate on the nerves of others enjoying the feeling that one is in tune, rather than accepting the painful reality that one is not.
Rationality is required to accept one is off-key and a deference to the God-state is required to come into better harmony with the true pitch. Learning to listen, accept feedback, and reattune takes a cool-headed rationality and deference for the truth. Thus, theology can support that the narcissism of Satanic acts can only be resolved by acts of grace as rationality; taking the guesswork out of it and reattuning when the perfect pitch is presented, taking away the guess of what the perfect pitch might be.